My Formula gets RESULTS!

Step 1: Unlock

You have many beliefs, and most of them aren’t a problem for you. For example, you might believe that that coffee is a miracle in a cup or that one brand is better than another. These are simple beliefs, and they’re also easily shifted.

Beliefs function like an operation manual in your life.

Your beliefs provide you with basic knowledge about how to function. You believe that your morning beverage wakes you up. You believe that working hard should produce results. You believe that kale is good for you even though it’s kind of gross.

Your beliefs allow you to be on autopilot.

Your beliefs strongly impact how you behave, the words you speak, and the actions that you take.

Positive beliefs create positive outcomes.

Negative beliefs create negative outcomes. It’s very simple.

And that is why you have a problem.

Your divorce is like a huge reset button. You have a chance to come out of this divorce better, happier, and able to create a life that feels safe and comfortable.

Your negative beliefs show up when you are dealing with your spouse or soon to be ex-spouse, your fears around losing everything, when you think about your future, your ability to negotiate, potential new partners, and most of all how you see yourself.

Now is a good time to introduce you to Love Locks.

In step one, we identify your Love Locks and correct the toxic beliefs. This is a huge shift that will allow you to feel at peace and get through the divorce without all the fears haunting you. That’s why this step is called “unlock” because we’re unlocking you. You will find yourself, your voice, and step into a better feeling place.

Step 2: Create

Once we know what your Love Locks are, we can find how they are impacting you and correct the problems.

We roll up our sleeves and get to work creating a happy life during and after the divorce.

We will start looking at you as an individual.

What makes you happy?
What feels good to you?
What does a happy future feel like?
What makes you feel strong?
What type of relationships do your need?

In step two, we create a new normal and new life for you. We’ll figure out what areas need to be released, what areas need improvement, and what stays the same.

Nothing is off the table while we’re creating this new life.

We’ll look at:

What makes you happy?
What triggers you?
What are your fears?
What comforts you?
What to do when you feel lonely.
What makes you a good partner or friend.
How to handle right now, the coming year, and the big picture.
What clutter are you carrying forward that needs to be released.

When we have a clear picture of what needs to change, we’ll implement a plan to achieve all of the newly identified goals. You will start practicing how to show up in your life as individual. In this step, you will start recovering from the divorce and feel alive again.

Step 3: More Love

Now that you’re unlocked and have created a better life, it’s time to work on your relationships.

The thing about about being married and with someone for a long time is that we tend to blend into our partner. We compromise and do the activities that they like to do. We like the food that they like. We like the things that they like. We share the same people as friends and family. This is normal. Two people coming together means that there has to be a merge, a blending, and lots of compromise.

Now that this partnership is over, there is a whole lot for you to explore. Suddenly the food you liked with them, doesn’t taste so good over the memories of them. The activities that you used don’t feel painful instead of enjoyable. The friends and family that you used to have might not be around anymore or they might still see you as you were when you with your partner.

In this step we’ll work to build up your personal relationships and bring new relationships into your life.

It’s very common for your Love Locks to pop back up again in this step because you’ll get nervous. When you’re talking to new people or re-establishing who you are, the stakes feel higher. The goal is to be able to be yourself, talk about yourself, and not spend forever talking about your divorce or ex-partner.

We’ll get you to a place that feels comfortable and easy when you are with new people and people you know.