January first!

A new year and possibly a new you!  Today everyone is making their resolutions or goals for the year. Lose some weight, be more organized, make more money, eat healthier, find a relationship, etc.  We are all so excited for the new year and the possibilities of actually achieving our goals.  New and old dreams are in the forefront of our minds. We will make this year count. It’s our year!

As a love coach, I love goals! Heck, my whole business revolves around goals.  Let me let you in on a little secret, there is only one thing better than a goal.

Do you know what this is?

It’s a goal that is successfully completed!

That feeling of achievement is amazing, kind of like living on cloud nine! Most of the time the attainment of a goal also produces a tangible thing in our life.  You get to feel great and get goodies! Seriously, what is better than working hard at your dream and getting it?


It’s really shame that most of you will fail at your goals this year!  You will not live your dream this year.


I know, I know. I’m a coach. I am supposed to be encouraging and your cheerleader. I also told you that I make my living because of goals. Yet, I just told you that you will fail and your dreams will not happen this year. Yikes!

Here is another secret, there are two BIG reasons you will fail.

Reason 1: You didn’t write down your goal.  If you did write it down, you did not make the written goal highly visible.  You did not make yourself accountable. You will forget about your goal. FAIL!

Reason 2: You wrote your goal down but did not create a plan to achieve your goal.  No plan means that you have a wish not a goal.  You have no way to achieve this goal.  FAIL!


For goodness sake, write your goal down!  If you can’t even do the first step, you really don’t want to achieve your goal.

Make the goal visible. Don’t just write on a piece of paper that you shove in a drawer! Again, if you can’t even manage to look at your goal daily, you don’t really want it.  Make yourself accountable.


Come up with a step-by-step plan to achieve that goal.  This plan must be detailed with contingencies.  If you want to achieve that goal get honest. Make a real plan. Not a pretty glossy plan. Work the plan. DAILY!



You don’t have to be part of the masses that will fail this year.

You can achieve your goal. However, goals take work.

I love goals.

However, I live to see people successfully achieve their goals and that’s how I really make my living.



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